Greetings, Wavy Ones!
Here in New England, the lilacs are in full bloom on this cool, overcast day, and as their scent wafts in my window, it's the perfect cozy setup for musing on some of the many facets of motherhood...
The Eternal Sunshine of Motherly Love
The gorgeous Celtic Knot you see above represents two hearts woven into the infinity sign — love that is eternal. But is this symbol just for literal mothers? I think not... Let’s explore how motherhood isn’t confined to biological connections but touches all aspects of our lives.
The Universal Mothering Instinct
We all have it, whether we've borne a physical child or not. Motherhood isn't defined only by biological motherhood but by the universal instinct to care and nurture. Just yesterday, I saw the ancient neighborhood cat making his rounds through the various yards, but this time he was limping badly. I stood still, trying to decide whether to help, as the independent creature has never let me close before.

In the end, I let him make his way into the bushes, praying his owner would step in. How often do we feel drawn to care for others, even if we’re unsure if they’ll accept it?
Mothering Instinct and How It Shows Up
Feeling compelled to help those in need, whether it’s a person, animal, or cause.
Having a nurturing response to situations that need care, even outside of traditional family roles.
Motherhood Goes Beyond Biology and Your Creative Power
What is a "Mother of Invention?" YOU! Whether you've had children or not, you've likely created and nurtured ideas that grew into powerful realities. These creations — whether projects, relationships, or innovations — are a form of motherhood in their own right.
Your Creative Acts of Motherhood
Bringing imaginative ideas to life, whether in art, business, or community projects.
Nourishing and protecting these ideas until they bloom into something impactful.
Take a moment now to reflect on all you've created and accomplished. Jot them down — you might be surprised by how much you've mothered into existence.
The Power of Mothering Oneself
If I had to choose one consistent theme in all my counseling and personal experience, it would be the essential need to reparent ourselves. It all begins with the "Mom within."
Reparenting Yourself for Growth
Recognizing that we all have gaps in our upbringing, and it's up to us to heal and fill them.
Choosing to love and nurture ourselves, especially in areas where we may have felt misunderstood or neglected.
This journey of re-parenting was a turning point in my life. I began asking myself, "What was I meant to learn from my parents, and how can I use that to create the life I desire?"

Embrace Imperfection and Grow
Until I made this discovery, I had been seeking external validation for the gaps my parents had left. Realizing I could tend to these wounds myself was incredibly empowering. However, old habits die hard, and sometimes that critical voice still lingers. The trick is learning how to stop it by speaking to ourselves with compassion, not criticism.
Practicing Self-Compassion in Motherhood
Acknowledge your imperfections without judgment or shame.
Replace critical thoughts with gentle, loving language to nurture your inner self.
The Infinity Wave, a powerful tool I use, helps to flood my mind with compassion and love, drowning out negativity before it can take root. Motherhood isn’t about perfection; it’s about love — for others, for ourselves, and for everything we create.
With infinite love and blessings,
-Hope
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